What NOT to do when approaching a girl
1. If you are driving in your car, do not stop traffic in an attempt to speak to a girl. Not only are you disturbing traffic, but you’re also most likely making the girl feel uncomfortable. It’s not flattering, at all. If there’s no traffic present, you should still refrain from doing it.
2. Don’t make animalistic sounds to grab a girl’s attention. Females are not birds, so do not coo at them. Females are not dogs, so don’t whistle at them. Instead, trying saying something along the lines of “Excuse me (miss).”
3. Although you don’t know a stranger’s name (hey, they’re a stranger for a reason :P), you should refrain from calling females certain names. Please don’t refer to a girl as “ma”; she is not your mother. Do not call a girl sexy. Beautiful would be better. Do not call a girl baby, or even worse- BABY GIRL!! She is neither your lover nor your child… just stop!
4. If a girl is not interested in you, please don’t get your panties in a bunch and call her derogatory names. Don’t go hurlin’ insults, either. It doesn’t make sense to say “hey beautiful,” but once she says she’s not interested, she suddenly becomes ugly. Make up your mind, silly!
5. Don’t use the same old pick-up lines. In fact, I would encourage just talking to her rather than using a pick-up line at all. Unless you’re trying to make a girl laugh with the pick-up line, don’t use it. Usually it’s redundant- so we’ve heard it before. Or sometimes it’s so corny that we cannot take you seriously.
6. Make sure that your hygiene is on point! Having bad body odor or bad breath seriously decreases the likelihood of a girl talking to you.
7. If a girl is not interested in you and she makes it known, do not stick around in hope that you’ll convince her to change her mind. Nothing is more annoying than a guy who cannot take a hint. I personally don’t care that I “might miss out on a great opportunity” (srsly, been told that a few times lol). If she’s not interested, just move onto the next girl.
SUGGEST YOUR OWN
Do you have something else that guys should not do when approaching females? Feel free to post it here. You can also give feedback on this or any general comments :).
Um one is don’t try to get with a girl just becuase you think she is “hot”. Girls dislike it when guys judge then on looks rather then what they like because then you have nothing un common or to talk about.
A good one might be when guys blow you kisses or make a kissy face and they barely know you. It is actually quite disturbing sometimes or just comical.